Don't shut your Heart
A comment which i had posted to a friend's blog, actually she has a similar feeling as i, the time i was hurt.
Friends...
sometime they make our world colorfull, but sometimes they just take the colors away.
But thats what makes the world go round.
Doesn't it?
Sis,
don't shut your heart.
open it wide.
all ups and downs make you strong afterwards.
if you close it now, i won't be able to enter, and be your true friend :)
...."nobody's perfect"
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sis,
once i was very close to a friend.
at first i looked up to this person.
i see this person was a sophisticated person. a role model.
time after time,
i guess i saw wrong.
after a tiny missunderstanding, which i intend to finish it with an apology, wasn't taken - although i didnt think i should have apologize, because i wasn't wrong!
this person never tried to open a conversation to me, which i've had tried once.
for a good deed's sake
after i became objective to this person (seeing everything out the box), i agree that such personality will change any value.
there are no wrong religion
there are no wrong value
there are no wrong decision
it always depends on how one looks at it.
it doesnt have to take a PhD or a Professor to judge whats right or wrong
it doesnt mean that PhDs are better than a high school student
it depends on the way one looks at and deal with it
it depends on one's background, value of life, environment
and what happened to this friend of mine?
although some friends tells me that this person is a 'wierd' type of person, a bossy and a role model-wanna be
but still, i value my good deeds.
you are right sis,
you can refuse to see, but can't refuse to feel.
Just try to forgive, although you can't forget.
that's what i did.
this person is still my friend, regardless im not to this person anymore.
*its always hard to find a person who always do things what they say.
even in an advanced diving course text book you can find "do as i say, don't do as i do"
Friends...
sometime they make our world colorfull, but sometimes they just take the colors away.
But thats what makes the world go round.
Doesn't it?
Sis,
don't shut your heart.
open it wide.
all ups and downs make you strong afterwards.
if you close it now, i won't be able to enter, and be your true friend :)
...."nobody's perfect"
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sis,
once i was very close to a friend.
at first i looked up to this person.
i see this person was a sophisticated person. a role model.
time after time,
i guess i saw wrong.
after a tiny missunderstanding, which i intend to finish it with an apology, wasn't taken - although i didnt think i should have apologize, because i wasn't wrong!
this person never tried to open a conversation to me, which i've had tried once.
for a good deed's sake
after i became objective to this person (seeing everything out the box), i agree that such personality will change any value.
there are no wrong religion
there are no wrong value
there are no wrong decision
it always depends on how one looks at it.
it doesnt have to take a PhD or a Professor to judge whats right or wrong
it doesnt mean that PhDs are better than a high school student
it depends on the way one looks at and deal with it
it depends on one's background, value of life, environment
and what happened to this friend of mine?
although some friends tells me that this person is a 'wierd' type of person, a bossy and a role model-wanna be
but still, i value my good deeds.
you are right sis,
you can refuse to see, but can't refuse to feel.
Just try to forgive, although you can't forget.
that's what i did.
this person is still my friend, regardless im not to this person anymore.
*its always hard to find a person who always do things what they say.
even in an advanced diving course text book you can find "do as i say, don't do as i do"
posted by tolelojing at 12:57 PM
2 Comments:
uhm...
that's strange, isn't it?
a role model should be someone that stands as our 'living guidance'. orang yg patut digugu dan ditiru.
kalo cuma ngomong aja, well...
as we grow old...errr I mean mature, we judge people not by what we hear... but what we see.
don't you think?
and you're right. don't shut your heart.
we can't. I won't.
thank you, sis!
Having reading this post.... there are 2 things being mentioned, one is about friendship, and one about heart and feeling. I will comment on the former, since you have mostly cover all I have in mind for heart and feeling.
Let's take a look from another side. Do you belive people change? You and your childhood friends might be good friends, but during the course of time, they have their own friends, you have new friends. They found some new value of life as they grew up, so did you. Then one day you have little conflict with one of them, and both of you apply your own value to the conflict.
Then in your case, have you ever think that, your old role model is not role model anymore, because you've found a new one? Because your value for the old role model changed? or the role model itself changed?
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